The method
The Enamor
Effect
What we do to an average dating profile, in order, with nothing hidden. Five minutes of your time at the front, a report at the back, and 20 strangers doing the part you cannot do yourself.
Where most
profiles are
Nobody tells you what is wrong. So you guess, add a photo, and hope. If any of this is familiar, none of it is a mystery once you have the data.
One to four matches a week
Hours of swiping, little to show
Conversations that fizzle out
No idea which photos work
Prompts that get skipped
The algorithm working against you
Three steps
About five minutes of your time
Submit your profile
Up to 10 photos from your profile. Paste your prompts or screenshot them. Tell us which apps you use, who you want to match with, and what traits matter to you.
We test everything
Each photo is rated by 20 real people from your target pool on attractiveness, trustworthiness and intelligence. Your prompts are scored for engagement, trait alignment and conversation potential. Then we read every data point and write the report ourselves.
Get your report
A PDF in your inbox: which photos to use, in what order, what to improve, and what to shoot next. Pro and Priority also get rewritten prompts built for your target pool.
What is in your report
Every report is written for one profile, one set of goals, one target pool.
Recommended photo lineup
Your best photos ranked by data and put in order. Each slot has a job: lead shot, going out, warmth, closer.
Per-photo feedback
Every photo scored on attractiveness, trustworthiness and intelligence by 20 people, with written notes on what it communicates and what to change.
What to shoot next
Specific shots that fill the gaps in your lineup, with settings, outfits and expressions that tend to score well.
Pro and Priority also include
Prompt analysis
Engagement score and trait alignment for each written prompt.
Optimized rewrites
Before and after, written to start conversations rather than collect likes.
Trait alignment
How well your profile conveys the traits you chose, and how to close the gap.
Pages from a real report. Photos pixelated for privacy.
Same man. Two photos.
Your photo choice changes how people read you. We show you which ones work, and why.
Voters said distant and hard to read. Ranked 4th of 5.
Same man, same week. Voters said warm, confident, and someone I'd message. Ranked 1st.
Real scores from a real report. Photos blurred at the client's request.
Why not just
ask a friend?
You are not trying to date your friends, so their opinion of your photos is the wrong data. Our voters come from the pool you are trying to meet. They do not know you, so they give the same instant reaction a potential match would.
What changes
Up to 15x more matches*
Up to 40% higher response rates*
A profile that attracts who you want
Confidence that every photo is working
Prompts that start real conversations
No more guessing what to change
“I met my fiancée three weeks after the rewrite.”
“My best photo was the one I almost deleted. It was fourth in my lineup.”
“I had been blaming the apps for two years. It was the sunglasses.”
*Individual results vary. Based on client experiences, not guaranteed.
Matchmakers charge $1,000 a month. Coaches charge $200 an hour.
This is $59 once, with a 90-day money-back guarantee, and it is the only one of the three that hands you data instead of an opinion.